LOVE is the universal language of the heart, says Dr Debasish Mridha.
One day away from yet another Valentine in a global pandemic, the symbolism of February 14, should not fade but be rejuvenated.
The feelings of love should be celebrated every day but on Valentine’s Day, everyone has the opportunity to place extra emphasis to express love to that special someone.
Love begins within, so learn to love yourself and only then could love be expressed to others.
I have researched some ways to help you enjoy Valentine’s under the gloom of the Covid-19 pandemic.
Dine-in
Though some restaurants have resumed in-house dining at 50%, many may still be cautious of going out.
So, why not dine in? Create or order gourmet meals at home but it’s all about quality time together. Enjoy wine, then pop in a bottle of your favourite in the chiller, set the ambience with mellow music and candle light.
Lastly, dress up and bask in each other’s company and fall in love over again.
Celebrate with everyone
Single, no problem. Do not only focus on romantic or intimate relationships as the other relationships are also important too.
Celebrate the love of family and friends who would have impacted your life at some point.
Share memories through photos, letters, emails, music and other artefacts that represent both the good and bad times spent or encountered together.
Separated by countries, location or time zones, then utilise social media and reconnect.
Get Creative
Missed sip and paint events? Why not get creative and connect with your muse and paint. It does not have to be perfect but with some effort, thought and love, it would be memorable.
Write ten things you love and appreciate about your partner. In the letter, honesty is the key, so be open about why you love them and also what you dislike, but still love.
Still, write even if you are single, remember love begins within.
Pamper yourself
To all the single men and women, shout “I love me.”
Clinical Psychologist and relationship expert Molly Gasbarrini has encouraged persons to focus on self-love.
She said, “The best outlook to have on Valentine’s Day is one of self-love, of celebrating who you are. Of taking the time to engage in a mindful review of everything that makes you a wonderfully unique individual with qualities that can engender authentic human connection.”
Give yourself gifts such as jewellery, clothing, chocolates, perfumes, or whatever your heart desires that is aligned with your pockets.
Stay in Bed
No need for fancy dinners, or lavish gifts but a genuine appreciation for your loved ones, can take their breath away. Try Valentine’s themed helium balloons, place roses on the bed, spray in her favourite perfume and she’ll wear your favourite lingerie.
If she does not have one, then use this opportunity to surprise her.
Embrace your sensuality as a woman or become your true self as a man. Indulge in oils, incense and other ideas to create pleasure for both parties with replicas of deep personal massages.
So, it does not matter whether you are single, married or dating, take a load off and treat yourself for Valentine’s Day.
5 Ways to Celebrate Valentine’s Day in a Pandemic
By Chantalé Fletcher
LOVE is the universal language of the heart, says Dr Debasish Mridha.
One day away from yet another Valentine in a global pandemic, the symbolism of February 14, should not fade but be rejuvenated.
The feelings of love should be celebrated every day but on Valentine’s Day, everyone has the opportunity to place extra emphasis to express love to that special someone.
Love begins within, so learn to love yourself and only then could love be expressed to others.
I have researched some ways to help you enjoy Valentine’s under the gloom of the Covid-19 pandemic.
Dine-in
Though some restaurants have resumed in-house dining at 50%, many may still be cautious of going out.
So, why not dine in? Create or order gourmet meals at home but it’s all about quality time together. Enjoy wine, then pop in a bottle of your favourite in the chiller, set the ambience with mellow music and candle light.
Lastly, dress up and bask in each other’s company and fall in love over again.
Celebrate with everyone
Single, no problem. Do not only focus on romantic or intimate relationships as the other relationships are also important too.
Celebrate the love of family and friends who would have impacted your life at some point.
Share memories through photos, letters, emails, music and other artefacts that represent both the good and bad times spent or encountered together.
Separated by countries, location or time zones, then utilise social media and reconnect.
Get Creative
Missed sip and paint events? Why not get creative and connect with your muse and paint. It does not have to be perfect but with some effort, thought and love, it would be memorable.
Write ten things you love and appreciate about your partner. In the letter, honesty is the key, so be open about why you love them and also what you dislike, but still love.
Still, write even if you are single, remember love begins within.
Pamper yourself
To all the single men and women, shout “I love me.”
Clinical Psychologist and relationship expert Molly Gasbarrini has encouraged persons to focus on self-love.
She said, “The best outlook to have on Valentine’s Day is one of self-love, of celebrating who you are. Of taking the time to engage in a mindful review of everything that makes you a wonderfully unique individual with qualities that can engender authentic human connection.”
For more information: https://www.alliant.edu/blog/self-love-and-valentines-day-untold-story
Give yourself gifts such as jewellery, clothing, chocolates, perfumes, or whatever your heart desires that is aligned with your pockets.
Stay in Bed
No need for fancy dinners, or lavish gifts but a genuine appreciation for your loved ones, can take their breath away. Try Valentine’s themed helium balloons, place roses on the bed, spray in her favourite perfume and she’ll wear your favourite lingerie.
If she does not have one, then use this opportunity to surprise her.
Embrace your sensuality as a woman or become your true self as a man. Indulge in oils, incense and other ideas to create pleasure for both parties with replicas of deep personal massages.
So, it does not matter whether you are single, married or dating, take a load off and treat yourself for Valentine’s Day.